There are qualities in everyone which we can appreciate and
admire, and for which we can love them; and perhaps, if you determine to think
only of these qualities which your husband possesses, this will help to improve
the situation...
- Shoghi Effendi (From a letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi, quoted in a
letter dated 17 July 1979 written on behalf of the Universal House of Justice
to an individual believer; The Compilation of Compilations, vol. I, Preserving
Baha’i Marriages)